Sunday, March 25, 2012

Arranged marriages

I'm going to write about arranged marriages.
Arranged marriage is men and women who want to get marry looking each partner for matchmaker. 
Matchmaker is like parents, friend, colleague, relative. It's ok whoever you have something to do with . But as some case, parents force to children marry somebody. Even though the children don't want to marry, they have to marry somebody. Because, to get money( if partner is rich), to advance the status( if the partner's parents are boss)There are some  kind of arranged marriage. 

These days, there is marriage bureau. It's like a place which the stuff find marriage partner who wants to get marry. It doesn't need matchmaker. The stuff will give some information. we can know individual information such as face, family organization, occupation and so on. So, we can choose the marriage partner. 

There is a marriage party. Many men and women come to the party and finding a partner. we can  meet a lot of people. However,  there is the disadvantage of the party. You might not be able to catch your favorite person if someone like your favorite person. In the case, you have to be aggressive.

I think arranged marriage is fortune. Perhaps, you might be able to get good person or you might be able to meet bad person. For me, if I can meet good person, I can't marry the person at the time. I mean, after a lot of dating, I will start thinking about getting marry the person. But I don't prefer arranged marriage because it's hard to like person who I've never met before. 
Although my acquaintance have a few experience of arranged marriage, she said it's impossible to find her type person. I think so. 

5 comments:

  1. I like your sentence "I think arranged marriage is fortune." !!!
    It makes me laugh!lol
    I hope that I have a strong fortune...!x(

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  2. I agree with you~! I want to fall in love with someone;(lol

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  3. I am against arranged marriages. I prefer to decide on my own.

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  4. Yes you don't want arranged marriage. You want marry foreigner! xD

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  5. I don't prefer arranged marriage neither even if my parents want me to do in the future!

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